With his poignant words about overcoming the challenges of being a gay Asian through compassion, responsibility and self-reflection, Evan K. was honored for winning the first Banyan Tree Essay Contest sponsored by Asian Human Services (AHS).
‘I’m not trying to change the whole system, but share my experience in any way I can for people with similar experiences,’ K., 30, told Windy City Times.
AHS, the largest Pan-Asian not-for-profit organization, sponsored the contest in honor of Asian Heritage Month, which is May. The essay required contestants to relate to the experiences, strengths and hopes of a gay Asian or Pacific Islander. The Banyan Tree program provides outreach and education to the gay Asian and Pacific Islander and MSM community about HIV/AIDS-related issues.
Arch Jamjun placed second with his essay ‘G.A.M.,’ while Young Sun Han placed third.
In ‘Gaining Self-Confidence,’ K. explains the role volunteer work played in helping him overcome strong feelings of self-hatred brought on by being stereotyped and rejected as a gay Asian. He learned to love himself and move on. ‘Life is a journey, not a destination,’ he wrote. ‘My human revolution has just begun.’
For K., helping others is the key to his happiness. He volunteers for AHS, Soka Gakkai International and Horizon Hospice Services. He also lent a hand at the Anti-Cruelty Society and plans to volunteer at the Gay Games.
‘I’ve received so much more than I give,’ K. said. He gains self-awareness and happiness in exchange for his compassion for others, he added. His newfound self-confidence also helps him reach his personal goals.
K. originates from Taiwan and moved to Chicago in 2001 after attending college in Indiana. The Chinese Buddhist enjoys a variety of activities including playing the flute, cooking for friends and rollerblading. ‘I’m always trying to expand my horizons,’ he said.