1. Spirit Gay and Lesbian Singles (www.spiritgayandlesbiansingles.com): With Valentine’s Day right around the corner (Feb. 14, in case you forgot), I can’t think of a better time to introduce this site to the masses. Not only is the membership free (my favorite price), but you’ll find photo personals, astrology charts and even games (like Truth Serum).

3. The Fireball (www.thefireball.com): The city’s hottest dance party is happening this weekend! Actually, it’s more like a dance weekend with all the constant partying … but it’s for a good cause (The Hearts Foundation). Find out how to purchase passes, party safely and volunteer. Also, check out the FAQs (and, no, you can’t bring your 18-year-old ‘friend’).

I’m at turn_it_up@hotmail.com.