1. Club 5 – Madison, WI (www.club-5.com/club5.htm): When we were in Madison recently, my better half and I stumbled across this club and were given a walking tour by a sweetheart named Angie … even though it wasn’t officially open. Take your own tour of this boite that has something for everyone (including a leather bar, restaurant and an area solely for lesbians).

2. Gay Date Cam (http:www.gaydatecam.com): Tired of people who describe themselves over the phone (or in an ad) as having long, wavy hair only to discover (in person) that the hair’s on his back? Then check out this site where what you see is what you get … unless someone is getting his friend to pose for him (but I quibble).

I’m at turn_it_up@hotmail.com.