I had the pleasure of meeting Gerardo approximately 10 years ago at my first Queer Nation meeting above Ann Sather’s on Belmont. I always thought very highly of Gerardo. He always had a voice to speak for what he believed in and for what he wanted to educate people on. Gerardo will be missed by so many people. I miss him; even though we didn’t speak to one another often, we always knew we were there to support one another.

I wanted to share this poem that I keep dear to my heart and when I read now it I think of Gerardo.

Keep your thoughts positive

Thoughts become your words

Keep your words positive

Words become your Behaviors

Keep your behaviors positive

Behaviors become your habits

Keep your habits positive

Habits become your Values

Keep your values positive

Values become your destiny.

To me, Gerardo (aka mi hermano) Values became his destiny.